Why All That Is Left In Kenya Are Many Single Baby Mama
The term baby mama has been heard for quite some time now, she is the mother of your baby whether or not you in a relationship.
While in the race for choosing the right life partners many women have fallen prey to men , research ,shows that around fifty percent of women who get pregnant in their teenage years never get the chance to stick around with their partners during an interview , Damaris spoke put about her experience in college when she choose to move in with her baby daddy who later got her pregnant and kicked her out claiming that he was not ready to take care of the three of them ,”well looking back I was a prisoner to love and all the attention that came from someone who truly never took me for who I am I don’t regret being a mother to my seven year old son but had I been more self -conscious I would have taken more precaution and concentrated more on my studies” ,she say’s that she is now focused on growing her career and her son.
Another lady claimed that marriage was too much of a task for her and as long as she was getting child support from the father she would be more than willing to stay happy and single. She says she values her independence and her own personal space without interference from the opposite sex that however does not mean that she dislikes men or anything but infact enjoys healthy friendship.
Well to top it all out majority if the single mothers do not include the name of the father in the birth certificates leaving out a trace of who the father could be, let us face it the most likely result from this is due to the negligence from the father to take responsibility for their actions.
Many baby daddy’ s have argued that some of the baby are as a result of illegitimate relationship which should have never have happened in the first place, question is whether legitimate or illegitimate a relationship is an agreement between two people. Further more choices have consequences some of which require bigger sacrifices.
If single by choice then well and good, but many baby mamas have resulted from strained relationship, pain or harassment from the recent past.