Stop Asking Your Girl for It
For every new relationship you find yourself in, there comes a time when you and your partner speak of the past and plan for the future, especially when things are becoming pretty serious and commitment is becoming genuine. As explained in previous articles; there are financial conversations that are important at this stage as there are sexual conversations that one must have, too.
Of all the sexual things you can ask from bae/boo though, the body count question is not necessary. And this is simply because some things are just better left unknown, some information better left undiscovered. Let people divulge it willingly if they choose to. And if they don't, that's fine too. Don't bother them for it. Don't stress them about it. Whom a woman has slept with in the past should not suddenly make them unattractive to you, and should not affect their standing with you.
Women don't think of the number of women a man has been with before loving them as they should. Why can't they be accorded the same courtesy? Besides, there's no assurance that the figure she'll tell you is the accurate thing. And how would you know if she downplayed the numbers just so you don't run off or start acting strange because of the truth? Really, it's simple; if you think she is kind, smart, intelligent and fun to be with, how does her body count suddenly change all of the positive vibes you feel with her.