Most women spend a lot of time dating the wrong dudes, trying to make them happy but reap futile results. Its normal to get head heels over the wrong man who doesnt appreciate the love you have for him. You meet a guy you suddenly like but think that you might be doing the same mistake all over again- How do you exactly know he is the one? Are you happy around him? Does he support you? Are you free to open up to him? Is me making an effort? Well, here are is one of the checklists you can pinpoint from.
He shows you support
One common thing about long term relationship couples is the support they offer one another. It’s obvious that the ball revolves around both partners in taking initiative. Most women love guys who encourage them to purse their dreams and passions. It’s a good sign if your guy always shows interest in what you do.
You may notice that your man is trying to push you forward all the time in a more positive way- he is not a nag. It’s a clear indicator that he forms the perfect match. Not many men will hang around if they constantly see you doubt your potentials. If you dont have a partner yet, it’s important to get one who is adding a positive force in your life. A man who is happy to see you grow.
You Share a Special Bond
Does it ever tend to wonder how some couples understands the thought of one another without actually speaking? It seems amazing but confusing how people are able to connect within their own world at another level. Some people have this kind of empathy especially when they have true feelings for you.
It’s of importance to know that not all men are the same. At times women tend to assume that a man should know what exactly is going on in their minds. You dont have to force your guy to psychically know what your thoughts are. But if he takes the initiative of knowing about your well-being, it’s a good sign. This is the kind of man who can sense that’s there’s something amiss in your inner world and respond to it. This talks volume about what kind of man he really is.
You share your world with him
Sharing your world with him doesn’t mean that you must have similar personalities. But having things that you can do in common makes the ice breakage easier. This does not guarantee the lifespan of the relationship in the long run. His willingness to be part of your life is the most important thing. Does he bring new ideas into life? Is he will to spice up the things you share in common? This is a good indicator that he is already synching in your world. A guy who is into you will care about the things you like. He will support and be part of it since he knows that what makes you.
He’s making an effort
Naturally, men are responsible for making women feel they are being cared for and protected. If he is working towards making you happy and offering protection especially emotionally, he is a potential match for you. They not only help just emotionally but also with household jobs that requires manpower. Fixing your water system, fixing your window, changing electric bulbs- name them. A caring man will always offer a hand voluntarily.
A guy who really wants to share his world he will always plan dates without you doing it all the time. He will find time to ease up his schedule to spend time with you- no matter how tight it may seem. A man is worth keeping if he offloads your minds burden.
He seems things look awesome
Caring and serious guys will tend to make things look easier and awesome for you. He will make you happy even in the most boring days. Such men are ready to listen to your problems and offer to come up with solutions. He will always want to know how your day was like and how you were. You will always want him to stick around in the worst days since he creates a positive force in your life.
In the hard times, he will cheer you up, offer opinions when asked, at time do chores for you, and listen to you. Such men who are ready to offer a shoulder to lean on are worth keeping in your life.