27 Ways on How to Make A Man Love You
There are many ways a lady who is really falling for a guy can do to win his heart.Here are some of the ways that can be of help for such a lady.After this you are really going to appreciate my help
1 .ENSURE THAT HE ALWAYS FEELS NEEDED
Women nowadays are independent an assume that they do not need a man in their lives but this is not the case.They also want to feel that they are needed.Single ladies are accustomed to doing everything on their own so when a man comes into her life,they don’t appreciate it and continue doing things like the man does not exist.Make up assist you in whatever way you think he can be of help to you.When you know he can do something better than you,then let him;ask fo his help.Doing something for you is like an achievement because he wants to win you and hence you will give him a purpose.By relying on him to help you also offloads you.Let him feel needed and give him a purpose to win your heart.
2 .MAKE HIM MISS YOU
Yes ,you are really falling for the guy but don’t be with him 24/7.I know you want to spend each and every moment with this guy;waking up by his side always and he wants that too;bt don’t be too desperate.Let him feel your absence .Never get to the 24/7 type of relationship.Being apart is sometimes healthy for the both of you.It helps you to do alot of things on your own and have time for your friends.Don’t abandon your friends because you are in arelationship.You will need them at some point.Some of them might be of help to you because maybe they have a prior experience.This will also help you to have alot of things to talk about when you are together.It makes you miss one another and he will always be remembering the good things about you and his feelings for you.
3. BE THE ONE TO COMPLIMENT HIM WHEN HE DESERVES IT
By this I do not imply you kiss hiss ass all times .For example;you can tell him of how you can not do without him,when he is smart,etc.Generally make him know how happy you are for him.Just say what you think in your head.Speak it out.We usually don’t compliment each other but he needs it.You feel great when someone compliments you .That ‘s for sure.Then why don’t you make make him feel great?Let him ALWAYS feel appreciated.Let you be the one person who makes him feel so.
4. BE YOURSELF
Don’t be the person to put a damper in your exuberant personalities.Let him know your true self and if he was really meant fo you he will love you for who you are.If you hide your true self he will have a false impression of who you are and you can’t hide it forever .He will come to know and he might be thrown off after discovering who you really are.Don’t pretend.Let him know who really you are from the start.In this case he is likely going to fall in love with you.
5. ADMIRE HOW MASCULINE HE IS
I don’t mean you squeeze his muscles out or faint when you see him.LikeNormal Walter said;masculinity is not something given to you,but something you gain.And you gain it by winning small battles with honour.Masculinity isnot only about muscles but also how you treat people and act with honour.Being emphatetic and vulnerable is the real masculinity.If he has these qualities ,let him know that you admire him.
6. BE PATIENT
If you think you might explode if you do not confess your love for him,look for a friend and tell him/her how you feel about that guy.She will help you in analyzing if your love will be reciprocated or not.If she feels like the guy will not love you any time soon,then you will be savwd from the embarrassment of the worst thing which is the one sided love.Give him time to process his feelings for you.Let him be the one to confess first if it is possible.Am not implying tha he should be the one to confess cause some maybe very dumb and may fear confessing their love .Most guys may fear telling you they love you because they are not ready for disappointments too.They think you will turn them down.If after sharing with your friend you are still desperate,journal it.It will never hurt you to sit on them for a little longer.
7. LET HIM BE AWARE OF HOW YOU ALWAYS THINK OF HIM
During the early days of dating, you may try to hide it because you are not sure if he is serious about your relationship.Nowadays things have changed and you will be doing yourself a favour by telling him he is in your mind.You are always blushing when he tells you he have been thinking about you.Then go ahead and reciprocate it.Am sure you will put a smile on his face.
8. ALWAYS SUPPORT HIM IN HIS EFFORTS AND INTREST
You really don’t have to develope interests in things he likes if you were not into them.Just be supportive.That’s all he needs.If he goes to do something he likes,ask him what it was like and in some cases you can ask him what he got.You will not be pretending that you like what he does but you will be inquiring.A study has shown that alot of people like those who ask questios;and not only questios but followup questions.Let him know your are always there for him as his number one cheerleader and he will feel great.
9. NEVER TRY TO CHANGE HIM
There are a few things you might not like about the guy you will not like. That is for sure. You will never ever change a man .It the issues are soo big and makes you hesitate, the he is not the right man for you.You should let go of him.If in any case you will be the one to constantly make suggestions of best they could be were it not for certain behaviours ,he will tend to close off from you.Always pay attention to what you say to him.Embrace him the way he is and he will do the same to you.
10. LISTEN TO HIM WHEN HE TALKS
Don’t half listen to your guy.Dont be the one browsing on social media or painting your nails when he is talking to you.Really listen to what he is saying even if it is not pleasant to your ears.When he says he is okey or fine, does it reflect in his body language? Maybe he wants you to ask more questions to know if you truly care for him.Do the follow up.Repeat what you may have understood when he was talking to show him that you were paying attention.
11. SHOW APPRECIATION
How do you feel when a guy brings you your favourite chocolate during your break at work?Those small gestures shows that he really cares and appreciates you alot.You can show him how you appreciate him by doings things that will make his life easier.Examples are picking his dry cleaning when he is busy,walking his dog,etc.Find ways that will always make him smile.You can stick a love note on his bed or you can take his breakfast to his bedroom.Always tell him thank you for being his wonderful self.The more you appreciate him the more he falls for you.
12. ALLOW HIM TO MAKE YOU LAUGH
If he is a person who always wants to make people laugh,be one of those who laugh.Dont be jealous or feel like is is trying to get attention.If he is funny,then laugh.Dont think that he is not funny.But don’t fake laugh all of his jokes.Only those that are funny.If he laughs at your jokes,then reciprocate the same to him.
13. TRUST HIM
Every relationship is build by trust.Learn to trust the guy.Though it is not easy to trust someone if you have been hurt in the past,just know that he is no not the same guy who hurt you in the past.Guys are of different types and are not the same.Give him time to prove himself.At some point you are going to trust him if you want your relationship to work.You are not the only person who can do something right so stop assuming it.If being around women who are maybe old friends makes you insecure maybe because you were cheated on before,let him know instead of jumping down in his throat.It will not be easy for you to not to worry so you better tell him and he will give you assurance that he got eyes for you alone.
14. BE INDEPENDENT
Do things you love with people you care about.If what natures you is going out with your friend,then do it.The right guy for you will be happy that you are independent and you will give each other space .This also means that you do not have to overrely on him.Dont rely on him to always do things that you have alternatives to.
15. ENSURE YOU ENGAGE HIM IN INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATIONS
A woman with an opinion is the smartest.Do not keep quite because the media tells you otherwise.A guy will be looking for that person who is able to express herself fully.Be that girl.Give your opinion on thingsyou discuss.do not always agree with whatever he is saying. It is good to argue sometimes.You might be the one with a good reason and may join you.By this I don’t mean you fight.Dont shy off in expressing your opinion which in some cases may be opposing his.Take turns to pick the subject.Relationships can be very boring if you do not engage in intellectual conversations.
16. NEVER PUSH BACK
By this I mean,do not allow him to make all the decisions for you.Your opinion also matters.Sometimes being soft and agreeing with everything he says is wrong.When he wrongs you or does something that you are not happy about,let him know.A guy who really values you and see your future together will appreciate because you are genuine.As much as you love him,your opinions may differ.You do not have to agree with whatever he says or does and deep inside you you know it is wrong.After all,he does not need a woman who is a yes person always;it is you he wants.
17. DURING THE DAY , SEND HIM TEXTS
Simple texts like am thinking about you will make him happy.No one wants to be the one to initiate a conversation always.Initiate half of the conversation .You will make him feel special by such texts and you will have even more reasons to fall for you.Change your strategy if you are always waiting for him to start the conversation.
18. BE A PERSON OF GOOD MORALS
They are necessary in convincing a man to love you without even using your mouth.Just your behaviours.Be a mature person,be trustworthy and above all be a person who is highly disciplined.A person who respects her self and also extend the same respect to other people.Men need to be respected because you also want him to reciprocate the same respect to you.
19. BEFORE HE COMMITS HIS HEART TO YOU,DO NOT BE TOO POSSESSIVE
In many cases, women tend to be very possessive of what they think is theirs.They will try to protect the guy from other women but it is not possible.You want to be the only woman that he has in his life.My friend you will fail.Allow him to decide on what he wants and what is best for him.If you are meant to be together, definatelly you will be together at last.
20. LET THERE BE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND OTHER WOMEN
For example in a case where very many women are competing forhis attention,let him see the difference which distinguishes you from the other women and hece you will make him see you as his best option.Show him or give him what he lacks in other women and in most cases they are not physical .By this i mean that you do something that will touch his heart.Give him more reasons to fall for you.
21. UNDERSTAND WHAT HE DOES
This can dramatically raise your chances of winning his heart.Be involved in things he does and always take opportunities to know him better.Get to know his hobbies,best places he likes to visit and such.If you see he needs your help in accomplishing a task,don’t let him ask.Help him.By this he will know you truly care for him and can be his better half.
22. DONT RUSH HIM IN MAKING IMPORTANT DECISIONS
Do not make a man enter into a relationship unwillingly because you are going to reglect.Give him time to decide.If you push him,he might do it out of pitty just to make you happy.In such cases,you are the only person who will be trying to make the relationship work.Just wait for him to decide on the right time to enter into a relationship.If he loves you,you will know and he will truly show it.
23. GIVE TOO,DONT JUST TAKE
Guys will always differentiate ladies who carefor them from those who just pretend to but want something from them.Many girls are after men for just what they have;money.Be a different person and always create that difference .Let him see through your actions that you truly care for him and you are not with him because of his money.You are imtrested in him but not in what he have.
24. GIVE HIM CHANCE TO PUT EXTRA EFFORT
Do not keep going after a man for a long time and he is going on with his activities as normal.If you do so you will be seen to be too desperate .Do not bore him.Let him miss you and feel your abscence.Catch his eye and his attention and leave him work on winning you over.Let him make advances towards you.Immediately he know he is falling hard for you,he will take the step of getting to you.
25. ALWAYS SMILE AND LAUGH
Am not telling you to pretend to be happy when you are not but you should always try to put a smile on your face.Dont be among the list of those who present unfriendly faces.Guys need ladies who makes them feel good and those who tell them enjoyable stories.But,don’t over do it cause you will make yourself look like a comedian.Give him enjoyable stories.
26. HAVE CONFIDENCE
Do not be one of those helpless females.Stop playing the victim.If you want him to really love you,you need to have a sense of confidence.Approach him with condfidence and you will make it easy for him to fall for you.
27. BE CONSCIOUS OF YOUR APPEARANCE
Be presentable if you want a man if you want a man to develop interest in you .Let not be your appearance be the one to let you down .Be aware of if your hair is good ,what you are wearing and if it is appropriate . Do not dress like a whore even if you want to be sexy .Let your style match the occasion .Be in your best in wherever you are going because you do not know when you might bump into the man who you have always admired.
You might be the first to fall in love with him but you can always make him fall in love faster by using the above strategies.If ever you had been in a relationship before and failed terribly,try to find out where you went wrong.Forget the past and welcome the future.He was not the right guy for you but the next one will be your mr right,if,you apply the above strategies.Those in relationships, try to change what you now know you are doing wrong and I know it will work for you.
All the best in trying to make the man you already have fallen in love with you love you too.